Dealing with Difficult People for Admins
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Difficult people can turn a rewarding career into a daily struggle. As an administrative professional, you're not only managing high-level tasks and juggling multiple priorities, you’re often expected to mediate conflicts and smooth over tension with clients, executives, and colleagues alike. This high-pressure responsibility requires more than patience, it demands confidence, control, and a strategic approach to communication.
This interactive online workshop is tailored specifically for administrative professionals who are tired of being caught in the middle. You'll learn practical, real-world communication and confrontation skills that empower you to keep your cool, set and defend healthy boundaries, and maintain your professionalism, even when others around you don’t. Whether it’s a demanding boss, a pushy coworker, or a rude client, you’ll walk away with tools that let you respond instead of react - with confidence, clarity, and composure.
Your Benefits for Attending:- Learn 5 proven strategies to communicate effectively with difficult people across phone, email, virtual meetings, and in-person conversations - keeping interactions professional and productive.
- Gain specific techniques to defuse angry, upset, or disrespectful individuals while maintaining your composure and professional reputation.
- Discover conflict management strategies designed specifically for administrative roles, helping you avoid being the office “referee” and reclaim your time and boundaries.
- Master what to say, how to say it, and when to speak up — with scripts and phrasing that let you be assertive without being aggressive.
- Build your emotional resilience with techniques to stay calm under pressure, avoid shutting down or overreacting, and preserve your confidence.
- Learn how to confront manipulative or unfair behavior head-on — without guilt, fear, or sacrificing your professionalism.
- Walk away with lasting control, confidence, and composure, no matter how emotionally charged the situation may be.
This webinar is a game-changer for any admin professional who wants to protect their peace, elevate their communication skills, and stop being steamrolled by difficult people. It's time to take back control, with confidence and professionalism.
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Rhonda Scharf
Insightful… humorous… entertaining… even contagious… are all words that are used to describe Rhonda Scharf. A speaker with the uncanny ability to look at the normal and see something quite different. Rhonda is a Professional Speaker and member of the Canadian Speaking Hall of Fame, Trainer, [...]
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This is the second training I've experienced with Rhonda. She is very informative and knows how to keep the audience engaged.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Administrative professionals face a particular challenge with difficult people because they are expected to maintain composure and professionalism regardless of how they are treated—often without the authority that managers use to enforce conduct standards. Rhonda Scharf, Canadian Speaking Hall of Fame member, addresses this challenge directly in her Aurora Training Advantage webinar tailored specifically for admin roles. The core skill is responding rather than reacting: when someone is rude, aggressive, or disrespectful, the instinctive reaction (matching the emotional intensity, shutting down, or placating) typically worsens the situation. Responding requires creating a brief internal pause—acknowledging the emotional pull of the situation without acting on it—before choosing a deliberate, professional response. Maintaining a calm, measured tone in the face of hostility can itself de-escalate interactions, as difficult people often escalate in response to matching intensity. Specific verbal techniques—acknowledging the person's frustration without agreeing it's justified, redirecting to problem-solving, and using scripted phrases that maintain boundaries while staying respectful—provide the admin with ready tools for high-pressure moments. Building emotional resilience through regular self-care, after-the-fact processing of difficult interactions, and cultivating perspective about the source of difficult behavior (it is rarely personal) protects the admin's wellbeing and professional effectiveness over time. Aurora Training Advantage's admin-specific training with Rhonda Scharf provides these practical skills for real-world application.
Angry or upset individuals require a specific communication approach that differs from routine interactions—and administrative professionals, who frequently interface with frustrated clients, demanding executives, and stressed colleagues, benefit from having these strategies deeply practiced. Rhonda Scharf outlines five proven communication strategies in her Aurora Training Advantage admin-specific webinar, applicable across phone, email, virtual meetings, and in-person conversations. First, acknowledge before solving: before offering any solution or explanation, acknowledge what the person is experiencing ('I can see this has been frustrating') to signal that they've been heard. Second, avoid defensive language—phrases like 'I understand your concern but...' invalidate the acknowledgment with the word 'but'; using 'and' maintains the connection. Third, use specific, non-triggering language: absolute words like 'always,' 'never,' and 'impossible' escalate; replacing them with 'typically,' 'in this instance,' and 'let me check' de-escalates. Fourth, focus on what can be done rather than what cannot: leading with available options ('Here's what I can do...') shifts energy toward resolution. Fifth, give the person a voice: sometimes people need to express their frustration fully before they can hear a solution—creating that space accelerates resolution rather than delaying it. These strategies work in combination, and Rhonda Scharf provides scripts and phrases for admin professionals to use immediately.
Boundary-setting is one of the most empowering—and most challenging—skills for administrative professionals to develop, because the service orientation of admin roles can blur the line between being helpful and being a doormat. Healthy professional boundaries define what is within the scope of the role, what treatment is acceptable, and how the admin will respond when those boundaries are crossed—and they must be communicated and enforced consistently to be effective. Rhonda Scharf teaches admin professionals in her Aurora Training Advantage webinar that setting boundaries requires both clarity about what the boundary is and confidence in communicating it respectfully. Specific scripted phrases help: 'I'm not able to help with that, but here's what I can do...' maintains helpfulness while declining inappropriate requests. 'That kind of language doesn't work for me—let's focus on solving your issue' addresses disrespect without becoming aggressive. When a boundary is tested repeatedly, escalating consequences with documentation protects the admin and creates a clear record for HR if the behavior continues. The critical distinction Rhonda addresses is being assertive versus aggressive: assertiveness clearly communicates needs and limits while respecting the other person's dignity; aggression escalates conflict and damages professional reputation. For admins who have historically accommodated unreasonable behavior rather than pushing back, developing boundary-setting confidence is transformative for both career satisfaction and professional effectiveness.
The most interpersonally complex difficult person situation for many administrative professionals involves managing interactions with their own executive—the person they support most closely and depend on for career opportunities. When an executive communicates in ways that are disrespectful, sets unrealistic expectations, micromanages, or creates chronic stress, the admin faces a delicate balancing act. Rhonda Scharf addresses this specifically in her Aurora Training Advantage difficult people for admins webinar, distinguishing between personality styles that can be adapted to and genuinely problematic conduct that warrants addressing. Adapting to a demanding executive's communication style—being proactive about providing information before they ask, anticipating their preferences, and building rapid trust—can dramatically reduce difficult interactions by meeting their needs before they become frustration. When conduct crosses into genuinely disrespectful territory, a private, professional conversation—using 'I' statements rather than 'you' accusations—can reset the dynamic without damaging the relationship: 'I work most effectively when I have the full context for a decision; would you be open to briefing me more fully on X?' Names the need without assigning blame. If direct conversation doesn't resolve the issue, engaging HR is appropriate and necessary for the admin's wellbeing and organizational compliance. Documentation of patterns is important regardless of the resolution path. Aurora Training Advantage's admin training develops the confidence and communication skills for these high-stakes interactions.
Administrative professionals are uniquely positioned at organizational crossroads—between executives and staff, between departments, and between the organization and its external stakeholders—which means they are frequently caught in the middle of conflicts that they did not create and do not have direct authority to resolve. Rhonda Scharf's Aurora Training Advantage webinar for admins addresses this 'referee trap' explicitly, providing conflict management strategies that enable admins to navigate these dynamics without becoming a conflict absorber or escalator. The first principle is neutrality: staying genuinely non-aligned in disputes between parties the admin serves prevents the admin's relationships and credibility from becoming casualties of others' conflicts. Clear role definition is protective: 'I can help facilitate this conversation, but the decision belongs to both of you' establishes appropriate limits on the admin's involvement. When asked to carry messages between conflicting parties, encouraging direct communication rather than acting as intermediary ('I think this would work better if you discussed it directly with them') protects the admin's neutrality. Specific conflict de-escalation techniques—separating emotional content from substantive issues, identifying shared interests rather than competing positions, and focusing conversations on forward-looking solutions—give admins tools to constructively support resolution without owning the conflict. Building individual trust with each party through consistent, discreet professionalism is the long-term strategy that keeps admins effective navigators of organizational conflicts.